How To Find Time For Your Ole’ Good Looking Husband

So you’re married….congratulations! Those first few years are AWESOME. You don’t have to plan things out, you don’t have to worry about sitters. You can just be spontaneous. If you feel like dropping by huni’s office in the middle of the afternoon to surprise him, you can. If you want to have a romantic evening in with your sweetheart…just the two of you, music, candles, and dinner, you can. Then you have kids. Kids are an ABSOLUTE AMAZING addition to your family. You are no longer able to have those spontaneous moments you loved in the beginning. Now you have to plan your romance. If you want to have an evening in alone, you have to find a sitter. If you want to surprise huni in the middle of the afternoon, you have to find a sitter, unless of course you are blessed to have a live-in nanny. Which would be awesome, and if you are kudos to you! Now you’re finding it hard to find time to spend with your husband. Every married couple knows that a little alone times goes a long way. Here are 5 ways that SR and I find time for each other.

1. Weekly Date Nights

Hire a sitter (or use the grandparents, they are awesome sitters) and grab dinner and a movie once a week. We mostly just have time for dinner as Grams needs her alone time too. Or you can grab a movie and snuggle up on the couch after the kids fall asleep. What matters is the two of you have that intimate alone time that couples need oh so much after having kids.

2.  Delve In The Little Things

Take advantage of those small moments to show your huni how much you love them. At the end of the day compliment each other and do a little favor for them without being asked like taking out the trash or washing dinner dishes. Don’t take your sweetheart for granted.

 

3. Talk When You Can

You don’t need hours to connect, just some uninterrupted time. Communicating and working together to solve problems are key to maintaining healthy relationships.

 

4. Do Something Together

Take up a hobby, enroll in a class, or pursue an activity you both enjoy.

5. Make Time for Sex

When it was just the two of you, there was no need to make time for sex; it just happened. Unfortunately, spontaneous intimacy isn’t one of the hallmarks of parenting. Babies need your full attention, which can leave you too exhausted for sex when a private moment arrives. And just when the children become old enough to give you a bit of free time, interruptions become an issue. It won’t be easy but you need to make sex a priority in your marriage. The intimate, one-on-one time you share will be exactly the closeness you and your spouse need to stay connected.

Are there any ways that you make time for you husband? Share your tips and advice.

Marvel’s THE AVENGERS : New Trailer! : Coming to Theatres May 4th, 2012

Marvel Studios presents “Marvel’s The Avengers”—the Super Hero team up of a lifetime, featuring iconic Marvel Super Heroes Iron Man, The Incredible Hulk, Thor, Captain America, Hawkeye and Black Widow. When an unexpected enemy emerges that threatens global safety and security, Nick Fury, Director of the international peacekeeping agency known as S.H.I.E.L.D., finds himself in need of a team to pull the world back from the brink of disaster. Spanning the globe, a daring recruitment effort begins.

Starring Robert Downey Jr., Chris Evans, Mark Ruffalo, Chris Hemsworth, Scarlett Johansson, Jeremy Renner and Tom Hiddleston, with Stellan Skarsgård and Samuel L. Jackson, and written and directed by Joss Whedon, “Marvel’s The Avengers” is based on the ever-popular Marvel comic book series “The Avengers,” first published in 1963 and a comics institution ever since. Prepare yourself for an exciting event movie, packed with action and spectacular special effects, when “Marvel’s The Avengers” assemble in summer 2012. In “Marvel’s The Avengers,” Super Heroes team up to pull the world back from the brink of disaster when an unexpected enemy threatens global security.

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